Love & Money

At first, love and generosity go hand in hand. The saying "In love, you don’t keep score" seems like the golden rule. But let’s be real. If you want a strong, lasting relationship, both partners need to feel included and understood when it comes to financial decisions.

So, before money turns into a romance killer... talk about it!

Keep the peace

A simple conversation can take the mystery (and tension) out of money.

And the sooner, the better: before you settle into financial habits that might not work for both of you.

Money isn’t some mystical force. It’s just a tool.

Why not have a coffee or a glass of wine and chat about your childhood, family money habits, and past experiences? You’ll learn a lot about your partner and start seeing money discussions as judgment-free zones rather than awkward landmines.

Compatibility & Accounting

Being financially compatible with your partner is vital, yet often overlooked.

Sharing similar financial goals and strategies can help you grow together, both emotionally and financially.

That doesn’t mean you can’t have individual strategies too. The key is balance.

Think of it as a financial duet : two voices, one harmony.

Because, let’s be honest, clear finances maker strong romances.

Splitting the bill fairly

50/50 or proportional contributions?

A 50/50 split sounds fair, but it might not be equitable. If one partner earns significantly less, they’ll have to stretch their budget further, leaving less room for savings or investments.

Instead, consider contributing based on income percentage. That way, both partners carry a fair share without financial strain or resentment.

So, sort the bills before the thrills !

Growing together

Financial education is a game-changer for couples :

• It demystifies money

• It strengthens trust

• It boosts confidence

• It helps you build a financial strategy that actually works

Do you want a stress-free relationship with money and with each other?

Money Women Mentor is here to help, always with good vibes and zero judgment.

Transparency is key

Love lasts… until it doesn’t. Whether your relationship is forever or just for now, both partners should be able to justify their financial contributions.

Keeping receipts (literally) helps prevent future conflicts.

Yes, covering everyday expenses is important. But ensuring major purchases and investments are properly accounted for? That’s even better.

Financial abuse : when money becomes a weapon

In some relationships, money discussions aren’t even an option, because one partner has total financial control over the other. Financial abuse is a serious issue. It happens when one partner:

• Controls all financial accounts and spending decisions

• Restricts access to essential resources, forcing dependency

• Puts family assets at risk (e.g., taking loans or mortgages without consent)

• Uses money as a weapon in separations, hiding assets, refusing alimony, or manipulating finances to gain power.

If you or someone you know is experiencing financial abuse, help is available :

United States: Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org for online chat support.

Canada: Contact the Domestic Violence Crisis Line at 1-800-363-9010.

Services may vary by province, so check local resources for more specific assistance.

United Kingdom: Call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline at 0808 2000 247, available 24/7, or visit nationaldahelpline.org.uk

Australia: Reach out to 1800RESPECT at 1800 737 732, a 24/7 support service, or visit 1800respect.org.au

New Zealand: Contact Shine at 0508 744 633 or visit 2shine.org.nz for more information